March 2018: Be Scofield
I had made a post on Facebook about the dj Datsik after allegations about him went viral and Veronica R had messaged me asking if I remembered what happened the night I met her. She posted the screenshot of our conversation on Facebook and then said that I tried to force myself on her & her friend, which wasn’t what happened. This created a massive post thread which created backlash towards me, and women in the rave scene that I got with started to share their stories about me. From that point they discovered my old court record which the case was dismissed and I wasn’t in any legal issues anymore. This furthered the post to be shared a lot which then caught the attention of people that had issues with me in Maryland. After that Be Scofield created the article which didn’t include any of my side or the conversations between me and those various women. This “author” has also been cited to be unprofessional, writing to defame peoples character without actually getting both sides. Also Be Scofield would harass people that were friends of mine or people that didn’t want to put in their input by saying they’re “Supporting rape culture” and basically bullying them to attempt to get more information for the article. Proof of this is also shown where numerous people tried to sue her over defamation of character and slander.
June 2017: Taylor F
On Sunday, June 15th 2017 me and this girl Taylor F started talking and she wanted to come over to hang out and drink with me. She came over at 1:10am and brought 2 bottles of tequila which we both had about 9 full shots each. We were talking for a bit getting to know each other in the kitchen and then sat down on the couch in the living room listening to music and continued talking. As we continue drinking she leans in to kiss me, so we started to makeout then took each others clothes off and she wanted me to go down on her. After that we went to my room to get in bed and had sex. We cuddled afterwards and she fell asleep but I couldn’t fall asleep due to my mouth being dry, so I got up to get my drink that was sitting next to the couch in the living room. As I take a drink of my Mountain Dew her phone that was next to it lit up. I glanced over and saw a guy named Michael with her last name message her being flirty. Maybe a mistake on my end to invade her privacy, but it was a red flag to me seeing that so my curiosity peaked. Her phone didn’t have a password so I unlocked it and began to read the text discovering he was her husband in the military but was cheating on him. She had sent him photos of her makeup & outfit that she was wearing when she came over to see me. There was also texts between her & another guy that she was cheating on him with that I took photos of. After collecting the evidence of her cheating I had went back to bed cause I was exhausted at that point. A few hours went by and we woke up at 8am and she tells me she had to get home to her dogs. After she left I asked her if the dogs missed her and noticed she blocked me off Facebook. What she didn’t realize was that I now knew she had a husband and who he was. So I asked her why she blocked me and told her us hooking up would stay between us, which I was hoping to catch her in further lies since I was going to message her husband all the photos & tell him what happened. She then tells me she was “taking a hiatus from social” which was a lie because her Facebook was still up when I switched to my alternate Facebook profile for promoting my events. So from there I messaged her husband Michael telling him everything that happened and he mentioned previously catching her cheating prior to me meeting her and they were going through marriage counseling but was going to use the information I gave him to get a divorce. After that we stopped talking and I haven’t spoke to Taylor since that.
My conclusion of thoughts afterwards: “I believe that Taylor, being married to a guy in the military apparently had her needs whenever he wasn’t around, thus cheating on him. He caught her before, so I assume that when I talked to her husband about what happened she felt threatened by him wanting a divorce leading her to making up the lie that I drugged her which wasn’t what happened at all and was probably told to him so that she would gain his pity and have him thinking I was the bad guy. Me and her both drank a lot of tequila and she pressed herself on me and I was just trying to have a fun time in the moment of things completely unaware of her background being married”. She says that I apparently “raped her” but yet she still replied to my text the following day which was baffling to me.
Below I’m going to include some of the texts & photos from that encounter.
August 2017: Kailee L
Me and Kailee began talking in August and had great conversations back & forth. Yes our conversations were also sexual & it was mutually brought up. She mentioned how I “sent her dick pics constantly” but from our texts she mentioned she “opened messenger to look at my dick & was going to masturbate then go to bed”. She also send me various nude videos & video chatted as well. We was talking for a good bit up until she had plans to come to my event Sorcery in Marshall. I mentioned to her there was a girl coming that wanted a 3some before the event. She planned to stay the night with me and the whole night was overall a mess due to poor attendance but the other girl there that came was flirting with me at the event in front of Kailee. Having been drinking also, I was equally flirty but then the girl mentioned all 3 of us hooking up after the night was over. Upset & jealous I assumed, Kailee stormed off to the parking lot and I followed her out then she told me she was going to go home to her dog instead of staying the night. I asked if she was upset over that other girl and she told me no but I could tell she was lying. So I did kiss her and put her hand on my pants where my groin is telling her we could just leave back to my place and not even worry about that other girl since we had plans. Upset still, she ended up leaving and I told her to let me know when she got home. She still talked to me afterwards on my old deleted Facebook & also was at the events in Charlotte.
October 2017: Kelsey R
Another girl Kelsey R had been friends with me on social after I moved to NC but we never really talked. Eventually I decided to talk to her more so I asked for her number on Instagram. We began texting on Friday, September 8th as friends and the conversations were pretty normal. There was occasional flirty remarks from my end and I had asked her to hang out occasionally but it didn’t happen until the following month in October. On October 25th she had posted a status on her Facebook about her back hurting and how she wanted a back rub, so at 1:55pm I get a text from her and we began having a conversation. At 7:30pm she texted me asking if I wanted to come over to her place before I started my shift that night. At 9:30pm I told her I got bad news from my work and just got fired, so since she wanted a backrub she could come over, me also being upset I wanted to vent. Then at 10:05pm she asks me if I had any alcohol and then at 10:08pm asks me if I had any guests over. She then arrives at my house at 10:28pm and comes in then sits on my bed near the door to the kitchen and asks if she could drink a little of my Firejack whiskey, so she takes 2 hits off the bottle and so did I. After that she lays down in my bed and I started rubbing her shoulders and back for a bit and then she takes her shirt off so I could massage it easier for around 10–15 minutes. While massaging her back I asked her if I could play with her ass and she tells me “no, not really down for that right now” so I respected what she said and continued to rub her back. After about 5 minutes she changes her mind and says “actually, you can play with my ass for a little bit if you want to” so I did, but with her wearing pants I asked her if I could take them off and she said yes. So with her now in panties I started to rub her ass, but while I’m doing this she was noticeably wet from what I could hear. So I asked if she was getting turned on and she said to me “yea, but if you’re going to do anything about it you’re gonna have to turn off your light cause I don’t want your roommate to come downstairs and see us naked”. So I turned off the light and we both got undressed and she asked me to eat her out, so I’m going down on her for around 5 minutes and then started missionary for a bit then switched over to doggy and she told me to “pull her hair and fuck her hard”. So as we continued to have sex she mentioned she “already finished” and was starting to “get sore down there” but I told her that I’ve had issues finishing occasionally due to possibly having erectile dysfunction so it might take me a little while longer. So with it lasting around 30–40 minutes we were both exhausted and she goes to use the bathroom. She comes back to grab her phone and walks out on the porch to smoke a cigarette. I get up and walk out there to ask her if everything was ok and she tells me her friend got in a wreck and she had to leave to go get them. So I told her to drive safe and text me when she got home. After that she blocked me on Facebook & Snapchat, so I sent her a direct message on Instagram asking why she blocked me and her reply was because I didn’t finish and also because I didn’t have on a condom so she was mad. From there she blocked me on Instagram and the messages delete instantly when you reload the page so I don’t have any of that conversation to add to the article unfortunately.
My conclusion of thoughts afterwards: “I believe Kelsey was going through a lot at the time with a ex and had different motives in mind being lonely and not just a back rub out of the blue. She knew I was previously flirting and threw out hints I was interested as more than just a friend basis. She said in conversation how she didn’t know me really, but decides to go over to my house late a night regardless. Not only does she ask for a back rub, but also if I had anyone home or alcohol. After we had sex, she was upset with the fact she couldn’t make me finish and after the fact told me she was mad I didn’t have a condom on instead of her communicating & asking me to wear one before sex or even during sex knowing that I didn’t have one on. I’ve unfortunately had issues while performing in bed, which ranges from lasting to long and not being able to finish, finishing to quick, or occasionally getting soft mid sex which doesn’t result from attractiveness from the other person. It’s just a mental thing for me I guess and it’s different sometimes which I’m self conscious about honestly”.
Below are some of the text messages between me and Kelsey R.
November 2017: Leann G & Veronica
On November 17th, 2017 I had a event “Rick And Mortys Rave Adventures” planned at SERJ located in Charlotte, this was my first time going to Charlotte so I was extremely nervous but excited at the same time. I rode there with one of my buddies that was djing the show named Sam W. During the event a girl named Leann G which had flirted with me before the event was there. So me and her started talking by the bar and she was finishing her drink, she asked if I could buy her another one since she was low on money. I told her I didn’t have money to spend since I had just enough to pay the performing acts, so I told her that I had PBR out in Sam’s van for the afterparty and we could have a few. So she grabs her friend Veronica R (Who was dating Abraham P at the time and had a major issue with me because I was competition against GFW and Sugar Society which he was working for) and we all go outside to the van and started drinking and talking. Leann then says to Veronica “isn’t he much more attractive in person” and she smiled telling her yes. Leann then looks at Veronica smiling then grabs her face to kiss her, so as they’re making out with each other. I took this the wrong way thinking it was a cue they were both interested in me and wanted a 3some so I put my hand on Veronica’s right boob and leaned in to make out with them. After doing that Veronica got mad at me saying she has a boyfriend. I quickly apologized about it and soon after that Leann continued to be flirty towards me and all 3 of us started to take a few photos which we was obviously were all drunk in. We continued drinking and talking then Leann says that she was pregnant and Veronica asks who’s baby it was and Leann points to me and says “it’s his”, I thought she was joking around trying to be funny so I didn’t take her serious. Leann then gets in my lap and we started to make out but Veronica then tells Leann that she’s going back inside and asks Leann if she wanted to go back in with her. Leann goes between saying she was gonna go back in but wanted to stay with me a little longer a few times then randomly blurts out to me that she wants me to “fuck her hard and rape her pussy”. After hearing that I pushed her off and decided it was time for me to go back inside and get out of that situation cause at that point I realized she was way to intoxicated. But upon hearing Leann say that Veronica started to cry and yell at Leann for saying the word rape and was very emotional about the topic. So eventually they calmed down and apologized to each other, so I told them to come back inside and just enjoy the event instead of being upset over what Leann said. As we go back inside I pulled Veronica to the side to apologize about the stuff that happened and that I didn’t realize how drunk Leann was while we was in the van. After that I noticed a guy named Flip hitting on her at the bar trying to get her drinks and I intervened getting between them telling him that I was her boyfriend and that she’s already drunk and didn’t need more, he tried to argue with me about it and I went over to Abbie & Veronica telling them to keep a eye on Leann and make sure she stays safe. Later on at the afterparty Leann came and had sobered up enough to apologize and we talked for awhile outside then hugged each other before she left. Leann & Veronica both remained friends with me on social media for awhile after that night, and Veronica also came to my other events as well afterwards. If you think a guy gives off a rapey vibe you don’t keep them on your social media or go to other events hosted by that person. She also claimed to be “sober" that night but she was also drinking with me & Leann (in the photo) and had also been drinking during the event inside. She claimed that I was trying to take off Leann's pants “without permission” when Leann was the one telling me to do it. I also had tried to apologize for touching Veronica because of me not reading the social cues correctly and she avoided me until I shared a post about Datsik.
My conclusion of thoughts afterwards: “As I mentioned above, Veronica was dating Abraham at the time and he obviously was very open about how he felt having the “new guy” coming to the area and pulling in a crowd for local artist shows compared to their headliner shows. And he claimed my events were “Gimmicky” and unoriginal. So I feel like they definitely wanted me out of the music scene because of being competition, but also I never understood why she made it seem like I did these awful things to her & Leann when nothing sexual occured but also Leann chilled with me and apologized at the afterparty that night & Leann and Abraham both continued to go to my other events & stayed friends on social media. Veronica also lied about saying she was sober in her side written in the article when clearly she was drinking & intoxicated”.
Below is photos from Veronica & also Leann
November 2017: Sara A
On November 17th 2017 I hosted “Rick And Morty’s Rave Adventures” at the club SERJ in Charlotte NC. This is when I first talked to Sara A in person, though I had already been friends with Sara prior to the event on social since May 27th 2017. We didn’t talk on Facebook since she was dating a guy named Miles during that time, and I figured she was still dating him so I kept the conversation short when I met her to respect their relationship. The next day I messaged Sara telling her it was nice to meet, and told her I was nervous to talk to her before that since she was dating someone. She then told me she was now single and we could start talking more often. From that point we both began extreme flirting sexually back and forth. On January 25th at 8:23pm we was talking and she sent me nude photos after getting out of the shower and told me we needed to “plan a weekend” to hang out. Later on around 10:00pm we video chatted each other. Our conversation was pretty normal for a majority of the time we spent talking, and we discussed the local music scene. She then was telling me about a guy named “Flip” (Also tried to harass Leann at another event also which was written about above) that would harass her at events so if she came to meet me that weekend for the “Pajama Jam” event hosted by Spent, that she wanted me to be close & watch her if he was there. We continued to talk more I then told her that I was horny and asked if we could have video sex to get it out of our systems till the weekend. She said we could so she began playing with herself and I asked if she had any toys to use. So she got out a dildo and began to use it, eventually her phone died and she went to bed. We began texting Friday January 26th 2018 at 1:58pm, she messaged me about the prior night when we had video sex and said how “perfect it was”. I was co-hosting a event in Asheville that night which she mentioned wanting to come to but she never showed up. So I asked her if I could meet her at the Pajama Jam in Charlotte on Saturday and stay the night with her and she said “I’m so down with that”. The following day I’m riding with my friend Taylor & Evan to Charlotte and she finally arrives at the event. I give her a hug then I told her that I’d pay for her cover charge & buy her a drink. We both get drinks get our photos taken, then we walk outside and talk a bit about different bands. Soon after Flip comes up to her and she tells me she will be right back. They’re sitting on the couch on the patio talking about 5 minutes and they get up, and again she tells me she would be right back. They go inside and I followed them in and they went into the bathroom together. I walked back out to the patio and waited on her and she never came back outside. I began to panic because it started to storm and I had no money to get a room to rent for the night. And with what she told me about Flip prior had me nervous frantically trying to find her. I got upset cause she was gone and I thought my friends that I went with had other stuff to do. Eventually I was invited to a afterparty and got home safe after that. Eventually I found out from her friend Jennifer that she “wasn’t feeling me” and left cause she didn’t want to “hurt my feelings”.
My conclusion of thoughts afterwards: “Me and Sara was obviously messaging each other on a mutual sexual level from our conversations and she lied saying she wasn’t cause she still had feelings for her ex. She also lied saying she told me no when I asked to stay the night when clearly she told me yes in our conversation. She also posted up that she went to my event that was Rick And Morty themed when it was actually a dj/promoters event that was a pajama party hosted by SPENT which is shown in the photo of me and Sara from that event. She also video chatted me and we had video chat sex, which she texted me the following day saying how she was thinking of how perfect last night was. Also, I never touched her on any inappropriate places, I gave her a hug upon arrival at the event and we talked briefly inside & outside then she vanished. I assumed that maybe I was just being used as a rebound after her ex, and she talked up a big game before meeting in person and felt guilty still having feelings for her ex resulting in her leaving then making stuff up”.
Below are the messages & everything from Sara:
February 2017: Victoria
On Friday February 2nd I co-hosted a pizza party music event called “Slice” with a promoter named Hunter. I had a bunch of my buddies playing then afterwards went back to a girl Lauren’s house that I met previously at the “Rave Arcade” which I hosted in Charlotte. We stayed up for awhile then eventually went to bed, then the next day we went to grab lunch at a Mexican restaurant and chilled for a bit afterwards. Originally we planned to both go hang out with my buddy Sam since he was going to dj at Hunters event Glow for that night Saturday. Lauren ended up not wanting to go since her stomach was upset from the food, so I got a Lyft to meet up with my buddy Sam. Once I got to his friends place next to New Mountain I walked upstairs to him in bed with Kelly, Hannie, and Victoria having a “cuddle puddle” and they told me to come join. So I sit my case of PBR down and my leftover burrito then laid down with them for a bit. We all was planning to go to the onesie bar crawl glow party at New Mountain that night, but Victoria was upset and decided to stay home. Me, Sam, and Hannie went to New Mountain and Sam was up playing with djs and I didn’t know anyone that was there so my anxiety kicked in and I decided to sit in the back watching the show. About a hour goes by and this girl walks over to sit at the table to my right near the bathrooms and these 2 guys walk over to sit next to her. She was really drunk and these guys were both rubbing on her thighs and one started to makeout with her. I told her friends that was nearby and they pulled her away and walk outside, the 2 guys then looked at each other at clapped hands then got up to go looking for her. So I then went to the girls group of friends to notify them about the guys that were creeping and then got those guys thrown out. Soon after Sam’s set we decided to walk across the street to the house and me, Victoria, Kelly, Sean, Hannie, and Sam were all there. Sean mentioned getting cookout, and I told him I didn’t want to go since I had my leftover burrito. So, Sean left with Sam, Hannie, and Kelly. Me and Victoria stayed at the house and I was asking her why she was upset and didn’t feel like going out to the event, so she told me she was recently going through some stuff with a guy and wanted to go try to meet a cute guy at the show but got nervous and stayed home instead. I then told her she was attractive and should cheer up and brought up taking a shot to cheer her up. She then pulled out a pickle flask filled with liquor and we both had a shot from it, soon after I made a joke about how I have a nice booty and no one flirts with me. After that she asked for proof so I told her to text me so I could save her number and send her a old photo I had. At 1:15am she texted me her number then at 1:16am I sent her a photo of my booty. I asked if she had any booty pics I could get and she sent 4 pictures of her booty from 1:16am to 1:20am. So as me and her began to flirt everyone comes back and everyone’s eating, talking & drinking downstairs. She then goes back upstairs after she eats some of the food they offered her. I told Sam I was gonna go up to check on her so I walked upstairs and she was laying in bed. I asked if I could lay with her and cuddle, which she said I could if I wanted to. I got under the covers to cuddle with her and she pulls out molly telling me she got it as a present asking if I wanted any because she didn’t know if she should take it all by herself. I told her I don’t do drugs but if she wanted to she could, she then tells me she was going to parachute it all and try to have a fun night instead of being down. She takes the molly and says that “after it kicks in she will probably come downstairs to socialize with everyone”. Right after that I asked if I could play with her ass to see if it feels as nice as it looked in the photos and she told me I could rub it. As I’m rubbing her ass I asked her if we could hookup since she had mentioned wanting to meet a cute guy at the event to get her mind off the other guy she was upset over, so she agreed to have sex. Then I told her we would need to be a quick since everyone was downstairs and I didn’t want them to walk upstairs on us having sex, so I pulled her leggings down halfway and started to play with her. She asked me to kiss her and I didn’t want to because her teeth were blackish & discolored after getting a closer look, which I didn’t mention to her but I assumed that’s a reason she got mad afterwards. My other hand pulled her shirt and bra down so I could also play with her boobs and we began to have sex and it ended quickly since I finished. I didn’t pull her pants up and I got up asking if she wanted to come downstairs with me and she said she was going to clean up but she didn’t feel like going down there at the moment so I decided to leave and go talk to everyone. Later on during the night she came around everyone but seemed really standoffish around me and I didn’t know why her mood changed cause I figured she had interest in me. The only thing I thought of was because when we was having sex she wanted to kiss and I said I didn’t like kissing during sex, but in actuality I didn’t like her teeth. Everyone eventually went to bed and the next day she seemed fine and gave me a hug before going back to Charlotte with Hannie. After that she didn’t speak to me. She kept me as friends on social media after that, up until the creation of the article.
My conclusion of thoughts afterwards: “I believe that Victoria was upset, lonely and needy after she was having issues with another guy that she talked about during the night. She saw me flirting with her and being nice so she began flirting back and sent me photos of herself when giving me her number. I never pushed myself on her whatsoever or took advantage of her. I believe that I knew she wanted male attention and I gave it to her which was the wrong thing to do considering she was obviously emotional and not quite over the guy she mentioned. I had been drinking during the entire night and just thought it would be fun for both of us, so I didn’t think of the repercussions from her emotional state. I feel like it was guilt that she let me hookup with her knowing she had her feelings elsewhere. But also I felt like maybe she was upset with me cause I didn’t want to kiss her so perhaps I made her feel self conscious”.
Below are the texts from me & Victoria:
February 2018: Kerry
Me and Kerry were mutually flirting sexually for a few months. She engaged me saying sexual things out of nowhere just as much as I did and pushy for attention as well. In her statement she wrote various contradictions, and she was offering me to come stay with her and also sending nude photos, videos, and did do stuff on video chat. Eventually I saw the article created in March right after I turned her down & could tell it was her that wrote a specific piece to add to the story. She saw that I was depressed and kept messaging me though I knew she wrote in the article to try to further make me look bad, and I told her that I was having suicidal thoughts over everything I was dealing with. I assume she hopped on the bandwagon trying to add fuel to the fire with writing in the article out of anger from me turning her down not liking her sexually anymore.
2018: Andrea
This girl, who I didn’t even know wrote on a post from someone who shared the article, and wrote that I was a “sketch bag" then soon after says she had me mixed up with another guy.
2018: Pearl F
I saw the article being shared constantly and was checking the comments of each post, eventually coming across this in the comments which confused me. I was friends with Pearl on Facebook but never had any actual conversation with her. I tried to explain this to her and show people in the comments section but she blocked me quickly after I shared the photo of me & her never talking to each other.
2018: Abraham P
This guy Abraham P had commented on someone’s post that shared the Be Scofield article about me. He was promoting for another promotion company Sugar Society & GF*W which was local to the Charlotte area where I recently started hosting shows at. He was dating the girl Veronica that sparked the article & he constantly bashed my events. Even though he had a issue with my shows affecting the turnouts at the other companies shows, he and Veronica continuously went to each one I hosted in Charlotte. I always would collect data from events by asking attendees for their names & numbers to text them info for follow up events and make new friends while doing so. During Sorcery in Charlotte I was with my girlfriend at the time Megan and asking everyone there to sign in & write their numbers down. As the event was going on I talked to a bunch of attendees to ask about their experience and a group of girls told me they was having a blast and wanted info about my next events, so I told them to text me and I’d message over the link for the follow up show. I then proceeded to ask if they was going to go to the afterparty (not my house) and then as they walked off Abraham questioned me and didn’t know what was said. He asked why I looked at them if I had a gf with me, and I told him that I’m loyal but there wasn’t any harm in talking. He also started drama about me not paying artists & one of the djs I worked with spoke up about it. He also mentioned in his comment that I invited these girls to “my house” when I lived over 2 hours away so he heard wrong. I asked them about the afterparty which I gotten invited to. I believe that he wanted to get me out of the scene, and Veronica helped him do it.
2016-2018: Allyson S
While the article was circulating a girl named Allyson which I only met one time at a Crown The Empire show years ago in Maryland commented on the post. I messaged her right after seeing the post and never got a reply. I was friends with her on Facebook and saw her at the concert with her friends so I said hey & talked to her for a bit since I was by myself at the show and anxious due to being alone. Originally I was supposed to have a date, but she was talking to other men so I stayed to myself.
2019: Sierra S
This girl would come bother me constantly while I was working at Wonderland doing security. She would touch me several times when I told her not to, asked to come over many times and would get irritated when I turned her down. Then she would proceed to harass multiple other men walking down the street or inside the venue. There was several other women that acted similarly trying to touch me without my consent while I was working there standing outside. Another woman would continue to try putting herself inside my winter jacket cause I was “warm”. And another woman came outside to smoke and smelled the cologne I had on, asking if it was Abercrombie which I replied “yes”. And she told me that smell turns her on, then asked me to kiss her and I told her no and I was busy working. She then grabs my shirt and tells me to take a break for a bit, then pushed me up against the brick wall by the second door to the venue shoving her tongue into my mouth. Which the venue manager walked out and saw, asking me “aren’t you supposed to be working” and I told him that she came onto me which he didn’t believe me.
2019: Autumn
I had moved into a old frat house turned into a shared living house with rooms for rent, which I was the first to move in. Eventually a few females moved in, one of them being a girl named Autumn. Autumn and me started flirting and we hooked up a couple times while I was living there. One of my friends Jocelyn moved in also and saw how Autumn was. This is screenshots from our conversation about Autumn. Autumn also stole my speaker which eventually I got back also. And she spread the rumor that I raped her between the other roommates there.
2020: Liv R
Liv R commented on someone’s post that lives in Tennessee that shared the article from NC. She tried to say that I was “in her inbox for a good fucking minute” making it seem as if I was talking to her for awhile or being creepy when that wasn’t the case at all. I talked to her super briefly over the course of 6 days in total as you can see in the screenshots from Facebook. The conversation was legit just about gaming.
