*Trigger Warning: This Website Includes Vulgar Language & Discusses The Topic Of Rape*
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I think the majority of people over the years have either wanted to hear my side, me to apologize publicly (even when I was innocent), or overall curious regarding events from my house party days, event hosting, or while i was in North Carolina & currently in Tennessee. For years I’ve wanted to speak out about MANY various situations that have occurred in my life, but I felt voiceless thinking no one would believe me. And when I tried to tell people things I have dealt with, the results are usually always negative. So years later I decided to create this website/article to compile all the evidence/screenshots I have plus the stories that go with them. So, with that being said this story/websites purpose for being created is mainly a response to an article made on March 18th, 2018 by Be Scofield. That article was written without any of my side, nor were the conversations between me and the various women released due to them "wanting to stay private". Everything written from this point forward is my side of things, including all of the conversations, which I will blur out sensitive information & photos out of respect due to nudity being involved. I will not release their full last names, but I will mention their real names & last initial to keep everything pieced together correctly. I wanted to create my story, from start to finish and hope it sheds new light upon the ongoing situation. I do have Autism and don't always word things correctly so I hope whoever reads this isn't upset about how I talk about the incidents regarding my life, my music events, and the various situations with women in North Carolina that wrote in the other article. I have no intentions to talk badly of anyone involved nor do I wish any backlash on anyone mentioned. This is simply an effort to release the full story and truth which was never put out to public eyes. Below is the link to the other article made by Be Scofield which operates The Guru Mag.
Table Of Contents:
Chapter 1: Early Home Life
Chapter 2: House Parties
Chapter 3: Court Cases
Chapter 4: Chaotic Events Company
Chapter 5: My Dad’s Death
Chapter 6: Unified Events Company
Chapter 7: Be Scofield’s Article & Aftermath
Chapter 8: Get Hype Events Company
Chapter 9: Anya’s Post + Ceda Jones TikTok & Aftermath
Chapter 10: Reviews & People On My Side
This website will also include information that’s personal in regards to my home life growing up & what I dealt with. But also it will include information from my house shows/parties, parties that I went to, raves, and when I lived in MD, NC, and TN. For those that read this whole thing in depth, I hope most people will see the inconsistencies from most of the women that have accused me of SA/rape/or overall me being “creepy”. There’s various women that HAVE flirted with me in a sexual manner, or even discussed sex in chats / sent things and then turn things around making false claims after they discovered the article/charges. Most people have said they don’t believe my side due to the high volume of women that have made accusations, but none of those women made 1 attempt at handling things legally. Logistically, you’d think if a person was constantly sexually assaulting people or raping people one of the affected would pursue legal action with their proof. But I think personally that it should make sense for most people to see beyond the lies and realize these women are “scared to go the legal route” but openly have discussed things with strangers or sharing the details online. There has been people trying to tear my image down for years, since school. I got bullied constantly while in school, which I was very very behind from my peers on a social standpoint meanwhile dealing with my stepmom being abusive and causing me to not really flourish like a normal teenager. So, of course I was doing a lot of negative things to escape from that depression phase which included partying, drinking, sext/sexting. There was many people that accused me of “Flirting/sending stuff with girls underage” when I was younger, and to a degree there was truth because I was not only shown several seniors was dating freshman while I was in school (14 &18) but told that as long as there was a 4 year gap things are deemed ok and “age of consent”. At the time, I was younger and immature trying to feel gratification or acceptance in a negative form, which was sending photos constantly or flirting around with anyone. Now that I’m older, I’ve looked back on things and really questioned my mental during that time period, but wished I had more help and guidance from people instead of negative backlash. I’ve made my mistakes, but lived and learned. It just would have been nice having a solidified friend group back then, instead of people surrounding me just using me and taking what they want and vanishing after. There was just a big combination of things that made me wild out while I was younger, and it’s really sad but also something I’m ashamed of and I wish could have went differently. After getting into hosting music events, several people made accusations that I “spiked drinks” or took advantage of women just because at the time I had 2 charges on my record that people found out about but didn’t know the details. I was constantly getting trash talked, told to kill myself, threats, etc. I really only wanted to host music events, as it was my passion but also I wanted to create fun events for people to go to & grow community wise. But instead it’s just been a constant domino effect of rumors/accusations. After I moved to North Carolina many people made the remark that I “ran away” from Maryland and North Carolina to “escape and prey on women in a new area” which isn’t the truth. I moved from Maryland because my dad passed away and I was depressed. I’ve wanted to move to Tennessee since I was a kid honestly cause I’d visit frequently while growing up. My aunt, who I’m very close with also had a heart attack soon after my dad passed away then moved to Tennessee. So my cousin offered to let me move to North Carolina, especially after I tried to commit suicide due to my step mom’s behavior and other personal life issues. I moved to North Carolina to be closer to family that mattered to me, not to “run away” or “get chased out”, “blacklisted” etc. While in North Carolina I had nothing to my name, and no vehicle and I was in the mountains with jobs being 20-30 minutes away. So with it being a struggle on me I moved to Johnson City after my year lease to be closer to jobs and public transportation.
There is also a part written in the other article that I “Used gimmicks to lure a younger crowd by using themes like Rick And Morty & Harry Potter” which is beyond ridiculous and worded that way to make me look bad. All my events ran under Unified Events were 18+ and had ID check by venue workers / security. The themes were fun and something everyone enjoyed, not some device I used to prey on a younger crowd. It also says that I was “Notorious for hosting all age events” when all of my events stated that it’s 18+ To enter & 21+ To drink. I only had one all ages music event lined up, which the owner of the trampoline park specifically told me it would have to be all ages due to their venue rental policy not being able to turn away guests. I wanted it to be a 18+ event but as soon as the article started being shared it created backlash against me and I took down all of the upcoming events I had planned. The idea for a trampoline rave came from a dj/producer that hosted a few in Columbus OH.
And there has been many people stating the fact of me having multiple Facebook accounts is “Creepy” and “Weird”. But I had multiple profiles because I was always promoting my company & events. More Facebook friends you have, especially from different areas, the more exposure you’ll get. So that was my reasoning for having so many profiles, I took things serious and promoted constantly. I also had a new profile made for Tennessee because I was going back and forth with my Grandfather helping him move from Maryland to Tennessee after my Grandmother passed away. My Grandfather which I was also super close to passed away shortly after he moved to Tennessee while I was 18.
But overall I just hope this creates a new outlook on things from people that jumped the gun assuming the worst of me without knowing full details, and if people want to retain their opinions still then that’s fine also. There’s just been way to much hurt from years of dealing with this, and losing friends that discovered the article but never got to hear the other side before a final judgement. Also job loss, romantic issues, and overall constantly affecting my life negatively.
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Takeaway from everything:
I think many people have gotten the wrong impression of me throughout my life. Either thinking I’m “weird” or “creepy” I guess from body language, how I look, or act. I’ve been a social outcast ever since I was in school, being extremely awkward and even around my own family I’ve always felt uncomfortable in my own skin filled up full of anxiety. I’ve unknowingly had autism my whole life until being properly diagnosed at 22. My social interactions come across strange, my jokes sometimes come off strange, or even the way I stare can be strange due to having a blank gaze from what I’m told. Typically I’m just socially awkward and most often I don’t pick up well on social cues. Usually I’m pretty closed off and stay to myself unless I'm approached directly or if I notice a topic to start a conversation with someone. Typically I stay to myself at concerts unless someone sparks up conversation with me, or I notice someone wearing a band shirt that I like. As far as people saying I’m “sexual”, yes I am. I’m not exactly proud of it and I’ve probably been with over 100 females but most of them aren’t seeking a relationship when they tell me they are, or I myself just want a little bit of fun because I’m lonely. I’m a very flirty person by nature but in reality I wish I found someone to be with long term while in school and avoided all of this mess. A lot of people have mentioned “why would so many women make up this stuff about you” and the truth is honestly I don’t know besides the fact most were bitter, embarrassed, still not over a ex or another guy, or downright spiteful. They’re all mostly interconnected through the local music scene and know mutual friends. And if you upset one, many will come out to try and make you look bad even if they have to make up scenarios that are completely falsified. I’ve been scared to tell my side for years in fear that I wouldn’t be believed or let alone heard. I want to apologize to anyone who’s been affected by everything that’s happened with me. Between my family, friends, past relationships or anyone in general who felt hurt. Also a big apology to my previous friends in the music scene that felt lied to by me keeping things under wraps. I’m currently living with two females, both of which know of everything and one that I’ve known for years. I do have friends that have believed me for awhile and I appreciate that more than anyone realizes. I just want another chance in life, to show that I'm not a bad person. There was a video I made years ago to explain, not to this degree however, but that got flagged & deleted. This story will stay published and receive additional updates if needed. But also I’ve saved this entire thing in the event this article gets deleted. I really hope people read this entire article in depth and reconsider everything looking at it from the other side of the glass.