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This story is being written in response to a article made on March 18th, 2018 by Be Scofield. The article was written without any of my side, nor were the conversations between me and the various women released due to them "wanting to stay private". Everything written from this point forward is my side of things, including all of the conversations, which I will blur out sensitive information & photos out of respect due to nudity being involved. I will not release their full last names, but I will mention their real names & last initial to keep everything pieced together correctly. I wanted to create my story, from start to finish and hope it sheds new light upon the ongoing situation. I do have Autism and don't always word things correctly so I hope whoever reads this isn't upset about how I talk about the incidents regarding my life, my music events, and the various situations with women in North Carolina that wrote in the other article. I have no intentions to talk badly of anyone involved nor do I wish any backlash on anyone mentioned. This is simply an effort to release the full story and truth which was never put out to public eyes. Below is the link to the other article made by Be Scofield which operates The Guru Mag.
Table Of Contents:
Chapter 1: Early Home Life
Chapter 2: House Parties
Chapter 3: Court Cases
Chapter 4: Chaotic Events Company
Chapter 5: My Dad’s Death
Chapter 6: Unified Events Company
Chapter 7: Be Scofield’s Article & Aftermath
Chapter 8: Get Hype Events Company
Chapter 9: Anya’s Post + Ceda Jones TikTok & Aftermath
Chapter 10: Honest Feedback
Many people made the remark that I “ran away” from Maryland and North Carolina to “escape and prey on women in a new area” which isn’t the truth. I moved from Maryland because my dad passed away and I was depressed. I’ve wanted to move to Tennessee since I was a kid honestly cause I’d visit frequently while growing up. My aunt, who I’m very close with also had a heart attack soon after my dad passed away then moved to Tennessee. So my cousin offered to let me move to North Carolina, especially after I tried to commit suicide due to my step mom’s behavior and other personal life issues. I moved to North Carolina to be closer to family that mattered to me, not to “run away” or “get chased out”, “blacklisted” etc. While in North Carolina I had nothing to my name, and no vehicle and I was in the mountains with jobs being 20-30 minutes away. So with it being a struggle on me I moved to Johnson City after my year lease to be closer to jobs and public transportation.
The part about the “Annapolis Party” in the Be Scofield article never took place. And the other part about being in a Facebook group and creating a fake account to blackmail a girl to send nudes also never happened, I wish I knew who said that about me.
There was also a part in the article saying I was basically groping a girl in highschool which never happened because I was way to nervous and shy around girls. I didn’t have my first kiss or lose my virginity until 16.
There is also a part written in the other article that I “Used gimmicks to lure a younger crowd by using themes like Rick And Morty & Harry Potter” which is beyond ridiculous and worded that way to make me look bad. All my events ran under Unified Events were 18+ and had ID check by venue workers / security. The themes were fun and something everyone enjoyed, not some device I used to prey on a younger crowd. It also says that I was “Notorious for hosting all age events” when all of my events stated that it’s 18+ To enter & 21+ To drink. I only had one all ages music event lined up, which the owner of the trampoline park specifically told me it would have to be all ages due to their venue rental policy not being able to turn away guests. I wanted it to be a 18+ event but as soon as the article started being shared it created backlash against me and I took down all of the upcoming events I had planned. The idea for a trampoline rave came from a dj/producer that hosted a few in Columbus OH.
And there has been many people stating the fact of me having multiple Facebook accounts is “Creepy” and “Weird”. But I had multiple profiles because I was always promoting my company & events. More Facebook friends you have, especially from different areas, the more exposure you’ll get. So that was my reasoning for having so many profiles, I took things serious and promoted constantly. I also had a new profile made for Tennessee because I was going back and forth with my Grandfather helping him move from Maryland to Tennessee after my Grandmother passed away. My Grandfather which I was also super close to passed away shortly after he moved to Tennessee while I was 18.
Takeaway from everything:
I think many people have gotten the wrong impression of me throughout my life. Either thinking I’m “weird” or “creepy” I guess from body language, how I look, or act. I’ve been a social outcast ever since I was in school, being extremely awkward and even around my own family I’ve always felt uncomfortable in my own skin filled up full of anxiety. I’ve unknowingly had autism my whole life until being properly diagnosed at 22. My social interactions come across strange, my jokes sometimes come off strange, or even the way I stare can be strange due to having a blank gaze from what I’m told. Typically I’m just socially awkward and most often I don’t pick up well on social cues. Usually I’m pretty closed off and stay to myself unless I'm approached directly or if I notice a topic to start a conversation with someone. Typically I stay to myself at concerts unless someone sparks up conversation with me, or I notice someone wearing a band shirt that I like. As far as people saying I’m “sexual”, yes I am. I’m not exactly proud of it and I’ve probably been with over 100 females but most of them aren’t seeking a relationship when they tell me they are, or I myself just want a little bit of fun because I’m lonely. I’m a very flirty person by nature but in reality I wish I found someone to be with long term while in school and avoided all of this mess. A lot of people have mentioned “why would so many women make up this stuff about you” and the truth is honestly I don’t know besides the fact most were bitter, embarrassed, still not over a ex or another guy, or downright spiteful. They’re all mostly interconnected through the local music scene and know mutual friends. And if you upset one, many will come out to try and make you look bad even if they have to make up scenarios that are completely falsified. I’ve been scared to tell my side for years in fear that I wouldn’t be believed or let alone heard. I want to apologize to anyone who’s been affected by everything that’s happened with me. Between my family, friends, past relationships or anyone in general who felt hurt. Also a big apology to my previous friends in the music scene that felt lied to by me keeping things under wraps. I’m currently living with two females, both of which know of everything and one that I’ve known for years. I do have friends that have believed me for awhile and I appreciate that more than anyone realizes. I just want another chance in life, to show that I'm not a bad person. There was a video I made years ago to explain, not to this degree however, but that got flagged & deleted. This story will stay published and receive additional updates if needed. But also I’ve saved this entire thing in the event this article gets deleted. I really hope people read this entire article in depth and reconsider everything looking at it from the other side of the glass.